The Choice is Yours

Listed in our book are over 42 recipes and exercises you can choose from to get going and living the secret everyday. This has been done purposely. The choice is yours. As the creator of your own life...you must be the designer of how you are about to create your reality. I like the idea of being able to structure my life in a conscious and deliberate way.
Only you can choose things that will keep you on track- choose the ones you are attracted to. And be simple- only select a few. You'll find that you will be doing more and more as the days go by. You will get tired of some and replace them with others. The activity we get the most emails about is the vision board. People enjoy doing this activity and it is such a good reminder. We'll focus on this in the next blog.

Accepting Where You Are To Move On

A few more words on the importance of gratitude. Gratitude is all about accepting where you are in order move on to the joyful and abundant life. When you are genuinely grateful for what you have and where you are in life now, you allow that feeling of well-being to stream through you. You are going with the 'flow ' towards all that you want. Conversely,complaining about not having what you want puts you in a resistive state and manifests what you do not want.
Most importantly: it doesn't matter where you are; all that matters is that you accept where you are and feel good about it. Life is about being happy now and the Law of Attraction will do the rest.

The Home and The Secret

Parents as the primary teachers of their children are the first ones and in most cases the most enduring ones through out their lives that will create a world where children will get the first sense of how to live. A home environment becomes paramount to how the child sees the world and himself. A happy, loving and empowered child will bloom from a home that consciously parents... where parents are mindful of their role and the environment they design and its impact on their children.

Here are some tips of what a powerful home environment should look like: Create an environment that:

1. Is warm and accepting...this creates feelings of security and self-confidence.
2. Sets limits on behavior...when children understand where their limits are, again they feel more comfortable and secure- there is no need to constantly test them to find out.
3. Promotes self esteem... when children are taken seriously and respected in the family; they feel good about who they are.
4. Encourages open communication and expression of feelings...When we inquire about children's feelings and listen carefully, we send a message that they are special to us. Children need to learn that all feeling are normal; when accepted children are more likely to talk to parents about their fears and thoughts and not be so worried.
5. Models and teaches social skills...a home that explains and shows children how to stand up for themselves, get along with others, and deal with problems and conflicts bestows valuable gifts that will benefit children their entire life. Parents need to model and teach skills of assertiveness, problem solving, conflict resolution, and friendship.

To be continued- how to create this environment...